Chastity Training and Orgasm Denial: When You Need a Bit of Extra Help
by Ms. Heather of CockControl.com
For Chastity Training and Orgasm Denial phone sessions, call 800-356-6169. Calls are 2.75 per minute with a minimum of 10 minutes.
Improving Your Sex Life with Chastity Training
You've finally decided that your sex life needs a boost, and you want to
sustain an erection longer than 2 minutes? Good for you! The first step in
improving your sex life is to admit that you have a problem. It's no secret
that most men can't hold out long enough for women to get their enjoyment
during sexual encounters unless they have learned to retain control over
that most unruly of body parts... the cock. While it does sometimes seem
that cocks have a mind of their own (and let's face it, even men admit that
much of their brain is located between their legs), with some practice and
discipline you can learn to control your sexual impulses and enjoy sustained
arousal instead of quick release.
Deny my orgasm? Are you crazy? Why would I want to do that? Isn't orgasm the
whole reason for living?
No, I'm not crazy, and yes, it is necessary in order to retrain your
disobedient cock. And if you truly hold fast to the belief that an orgasm
is the entire reason for your existence, then you may as well go on back to
stroking that cock and get used to being married to Mary Palm and Her Five
Sisters, because if you are only concerned about your own pleasure and your
own orgasm, and not worried about your partners, then you'll be stuck having
sex with your hand until you wise up. Since it is said that the way to a
man's heart is through his stomach, let me put this into words you can
understand easier. Only being concerned with your orgasm is like chomping
through the hard candy shell of a Tootsie roll pop in a hurry to get to the
chewy chocolate center. Why rush to get to the destination when the journey
there can be so sweet? Taking time to savor every lick that it takes to get
to the center and enjoying the entire experience makes it so much more
rewarding once you get there.
Ok, I don't want to be the Minute Man for the rest of my life, so now what?
Well, you make a commitment to work on getting that cock under control. One
of the best ways to do this is to practice orgasm edging and orgasm denial.
This involves stimulating your cock to the point of orgasm, and then
stopping before you cross the line and actually release. Doing this over and
over again not only increases the sensitivity of your cock and builds up
your sexual tension, but also trains your cock to hold back from allowing
orgasm to happen until you are ready for it. Now just remember, Rome wasn't
built in a day, and if you have allowed your cock to run amok your entire
life, you can't expect results overnight, so it may take some time to get
things under control. And just like anything else that's worth working for,
cock control is no different. For some, it may be easier than for others
depending on your personal self- control. Much like quitting smoking, some
may find it is easier to quit cold turkey, while others may get better
results by taking baby steps and setting small goals for themselves. If you
are a chronic masturbator and allow yourself to orgasm every day, try only
allowing it every other day. Then make it once a week. Then once every two
weeks. You get the idea... make small goals and work your way up, every bit
counts when it comes to cock control. Once you master control over your
sexual organ, you will find that it not only enhances your sex life, but
also gives you a sense of power and confidence in other aspects of your
every day life as well. You realize you do have control over yourself, in
every way, and can accomplish anything you set your mind to. But if your
self-control is lacking, you may find that you need a little help in getting
through the hard part.
I'm trying to keep myself from playing with my cock, but can't seem to keep
my hands off of it... help!
If you find you are having difficulty in keeping yourself on the program,
you may be a prime candidate for a chastity device. Depending upon your
lack of control, these devices can range from extremely serious equipment to
just the bare basics of confinement. They come in a variety of shapes and
sizes, and some even have accessories for those really hard-to-train cocks.
Chastity rings can inhibit an erection and make it more difficult to stroke
your cock, thereby assisting you in refraining from masturbation. If you
need more help than that, you can move up to chastity tubes or chastity
cages, both of which cover the entire shaft, making achieving an orgasm
through manual masturbation all but impossible (although your balls can
still be stimulated). And if you still find yourself able to orgasm with
your cock locked up, you can add on some extreme accessories such as Points
of Intrigue... a nasty (yet fun) little addition to your cock cage or tube
that involves small sharp pins that dig into your cock if you have an
erection with the chastity device on... training your cock to learn that
there is a punishment if it misbehaves.
For some, putting another person in charge of their cock is also helpful,
and this is where a good Mistress can help you achieve your orgasm denial
goals. She will take complete control over your cock and be the one to tell
you when you can have an orgasm and when you have to wait. It also helps if
you have a close enough relationship with them or trust them enough to give
them the key to your chastity device... this way you cannot even stimulate the cock unless they say so. This type of orgasm denial can be much more
fun than doing it on your own as well, because it involves placing yourself
under the authority of a well-trained Mistress, and they know just how to
train you, control you, and tease you so that you learn how to hold back
that orgasm to make it last longer.
There can be many reasons why you may have decided to practice orgasm
denial, but no matter what the reason is, one simple fact remains... having
control over your sex organ means having more control over yourself in
general... and that's always a good thing.
Written by Mistress Heather 1-800-356-6169
For chastity training and Cock Control by phone, call Ms Heather at 800-356-6169, or click "Mistresses" above for other orgasm denial game playmates