Male Orgasm Denial Has Many Benefits to the Male
So you have thought about male orgasm denial, and why you would want to deny
yourself such a wonderful pleasure. Maybe you're a female and you've thought
about denying your man the pleasure of an orgasm, taking control and
renewing the intimacy that you once had. First, you need to understand that
withholding sex and orgasm denial are two totally different activities.
With male orgasm denial, you will enter a world filled with new experiences,
wants, desires, pleasures, and erotic sensations that has been long lost.
Studies show that men between the ages of 25 and 40 have an average of three orgasms a day.
Men are in their own fantasy world when they please themselves.
More often than not, the fantasies aren't about their wives or girlfriends,
and if they are it probably includes more than just their partner. They may be
joined by another girl, man or maybe both. Believe me, he isn't
fantasizing about making love, and cuddling you in the end.
With male orgasm denial, Instant Gratification is no longer an option, but a thing of the
past. A new world of ecstasy is opened up.
Benefits Of Male Orgasm Denial:
1. Power Exchange- Nothing is more erotic and intoxicating than giving
complete control of your orgasms to another person. Men are often faced with
the stress of making important decisions every day at work, and the pressure
that it brings. Not knowing when you will be allowed to have an orgasm, or if you will
even be allowed to have one at all, is very erotic. Will today be the day, the week, the
The anticipation builds up and fantasizing about your partner knowing
that all power lies within them is enough for an instant erection. Most men
love power, and when they give up that control and realize that you are
their femdom Goddess and you own their cock and orgasm, that is enough to drive them wild in itself. When you turn complete power of sex over to the women you will
know that she wants it, and not just because she feels it is her duty. Now
sex is up to the women and will be at her discretion.
2. Exercising Control- Men are so accustomed to touching themselves, when they go
to the bathroom, when they're bored, touching themselves for comfort and
pleasure... when you take that away it can become a renewed experience. Soon
you will learn to enjoy arousal and learn how to make it last. A man will learn that he
doesn't actually have to have an orgasm to feel that natural high. He will
learn to savor the feeling of frustration from arousal (yes that is a good
thing)! Learning to rediscover new sensations and finding new ones. Now
lovemaking can last for hours and doesn't just have to be something that you
do during a commercial so you can get back to watching the football game.
3. Learning To Please Your Partner: Suddenly, when your orgasms are
restricted and denied, you learn how to please your partner. Remember how
exciting it was when you were first experimenting with sex, and you couldn't keep your hands off
your girlfriend? How you were always pawing at each other? You'll get that
excitement back when Orgasm Denial is practiced.
Learning to find out what
pleases your partner and what their wants and needs are: Before an orgasm
men are sweet, loving, romantic, and kind. After an orgasm, the untrained man tends to
forget that you exist, and rolls over to go to sleep. Here
is where the theory of fight or flight/breed and feed enter. When orgasms
are denied, you learn to put your partner's needs before yours. Men suddenly
learn how exciting slow kisses and caresses can be. Doing the things that
your partner enjoys isn't such a chore anymore when you know that your
orgasm lies in their hands. Orgasm denial teaches a men to derive pleasure
from pleasing your partner.
4. Learn To Communicate: when orgasms are denied, a man will tune in to his partners needs and desires.
Intimacy talk will find a place in the relationship and you will actually
enjoy it, not just do you wanna "do it"? Men also learn to open up and share
their fears, feelings, opinions and much more that they usually won't share.
Remember how good it felt when you were first with your partner and you
loved to talk, to share your feelings, to plan your future, your dreams? It
can all be yours again with some orgasm denial.
5. Mind Blowing Orgasm: When a man is finally allowed to have an orgasm, it
will be an electrifying, earth moving experience. The instant
gratification that a man has become used to will not seem as important or as
desirable. The longer that one has to wait to have an orgasm, the better it
will be when he finally is allowed to have one. I don't recommend setting an exact date when an orgasm will be
allowed to happen, but when the Mistress or partner controlling the orgasm
thinks the time is right. Remember: total power exchange.
Male Orgasm Denial and Chastity Training
While it's easy to think that you can learn to practice orgasm denial
without the help of a chastity device, it's not practical. Many men
unknowingly will touch themselves and bring themselves to pleasure before
they have even thought about what they have done, or too far over the edge to
bring themselves back thinking one more time and then I will control my
orgasms. Later seems to never arrive! Don't think that a man will be openly
honest about when he masturbates. That is why I highly recommend that a
chastity device be used. That way you know that a "slip up" won't occur.
Orgasm denial can open up so many new feelings and desires. No, it's not for
everyone but there is a whole new world of sensation out there for those
with an open mind.