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An Orgasm Denial, Teasing and Life Interview with Ms Ryan of Cock Control

Ms Ally: You’ve been with Cock Control for just about 2 years. What keeps you here?
Ms Ryan: Being with Cock Control gives me the opportunity to interact with such a huge section of the population and share what I know about teasing, denial and chastity training…and I love what I do!

No Mercy Orgasm Denial

Ms Ally: When it comes to Cock Control, would you say you are strict or merciful?
Ms Ryan: *laugh* I tend to hover just between the two, depending on what the guest needs. But I do have a reputation for being a bit more firm than some others … so I guess, I’m mercifully strict.

Ms Ally: We have quite a few sites, but Cock Control is our most popular. Why do so many men need and want to have their cocks controlled?
Ms Ryan: It comes down to balance, I believe. The men who call us, needing that measure of control in their lives are trying to balance off their everyday lives. They spend all day every day in control of other things, either their career, their homes or the people around them that it’s a relief to finally be able to give up something to another person. Having someone else take the reigns for awhile can give them time to just relax … well, that and it just feels really bloody good to finally hear the words “cum for me” after being teased forever!

Cocktease Without Denial

Ms Ally: What about the ones who want to NOT hear the ‘cum for me’ words. The ones into orgasm denial. There is a world full of guys who completely cannot conceive of the idea of getting all worked up, and then NOT having an orgasm. What do you think is going on there?
Ms Ryan: Oh the ultimately denied stroker boy is my favourite. He is handing the ultimate submission to his Mistress by giving her control over the very male, very primal urge to cum. He wants someone to completely control him in the most basic of ways. Sometimes it’s power, perhaps he’s higher up on the echelon of his career … the more responsibility he has, the more control he needs to cede. The more “Alpha male” he is, the stronger the urge to submit becomes, for some men

Ms Ally: Many of the vanilla guys I know say “Come on, you don’t think they (the denial guys) are just hanging up the phone and finishing themselves?” Do YOU think they are?
Ms Ryan: I really don’t. I would say at least 95% of the callers who look for denial as their submission really do keep to their word and hold it back. Most of what happens in sex occurs between the ears and being true to your Mistress is what gets some of my denied strokers “off”, so to speak. Knowing I said no is enough to keep them honest with me and themselves.

Ms Ally: If someone is going to engage in a long term denial period, what are the health considerations he needs to be aware of, if any?
Ms Ryan: Long term denial, whether in chastity or not is something to be seriously discussed with your

Mistress outside of a “session”. While there aren’t any true “dangers” in participating in denial safely, there are some hygenic concerns. If you are in chastity, the cage should be removed periodically for “cleanliness”. If you are just practicing denial without the aid of a device of any kind, you need to learn when your body is telling you something. If you find that you are becoming uncomfortable in any way that is not “the norm” you should discuss that with your Mistress, or if it’s something pressing, seek out professional assistance

Ms Ryan, The Sadist

Ms Ally: Are you sadistic?
Ms Ryan: I am … *grin*. I learned very early on in my fetish lifestyle that I’m a dacriphylliac…mainly in person with others in my fetish community, but also on the phone … it gets me hot to hear someone whimper and cry. But if that’s not what is called for with a particular client, I certainly get just as much pleasure from his offer of control as I do from his suffering

Erotic Humiliation

Ms Ally: What do you make of those who get turned on by humiliation?
Ms Ryan: We’re all wired different. The men who need humiliation in order to get off are just like everyone else … they are just smaller, weaker and more pathetic in some cases … *laugh* Some people just need to be laughed at

Ms Ally: Do you think that there is something psychologically damaging about engaging in erotic humiliation?
Ms Ryan: “damaging” … no. it’s torturous as it’s happening but erotic humiliation isn’t going to leave someone with psychological scarring that will hinder their every day lives

Strict Orgasm Denial: No Escape

Ms Ally: If you had a denial trainee in a 1 month denial period, and he offered you $10,000 to cum early – would you take it?
Ms Ryan: Absolutely not. Just as my denied strokers are honest with me about their keeping their word, as a Mistress it’s up to me to keep to mine. It’s up to the Mistress to control the relationship and the training period … if I were to “take the bribe” that puts him in control and therefore, ultimately the training fails…and I’m far too much of an Alpha Bitch to ever give up that much control …

Ms Ally: So there’s no way, absolutely nothing one could do to get out of a denial period once it starts?
Ms Ryan: barring some unforseeable force, such as a natural disaster or some personal crisis … once that denial period begins, I will see it through to the end. And, if for some reason, something DOES happen to prevent the session from completing … a new training period will be selected to begin … from the beginning … all over again

Ms Ally: But nothing that the trainee can DO to convince you to let him out early
Ms Ryan: absoutely not! Remember … begging and crying excite me!

Ms Ally: So do you deny EVERYONE who calls? What about the guys who just like cockteasing but they want to finish with a Big O
Ms Ryan: I only deny the ones who tell me up front that’s what they are looking for. Variety is what keeps it all interesting and fun. Even for the short term denial participants … When that big O finally does arrive, it’s bigger, better and more powerful for having been teased out, rather than just letting it happen on it’s own. A man who is experiencing that much pleasure because of something we shared is JUST as thrilling as the whimpers when I tell him he has to wait

Totally Random Ms Ryan Questions

Ms Ally: When do you think the DOW will return to Fall 2008 levels?
Ms Ryan: When Satan himself ice skates in your front yard… wearing a sissy tutu
Ms Ally: You’re an economic pessimist! I think it’ll be 2013.
Ms Ryan: I live in the moment
Ms Ryan: I’m a hedonist … I believe in taking what pleasure is available right now

Ms Ally: When do you think old men will be able to make out with young girls in movies again, like in “Blame it on Rio”?
Ms Ryan: You don’t think it’s still happening today?
Ms Ally: Oh no, not like it did in the 80’s! I mean you have men in their 50’s cavorting with ladies in their early 20’s now… But nothing like Blame it on Rio – that’s verbotten now!
Ms Ryan: I have to admit having never seen the movie … but in the 80’s, I can only imagine. We were an indulgent society … quite hedonistic … the motto “If it feels good, keep going … it can only get better”

Ms Ally: Do you think we will see a gay woman President of the United States in our lifetime?
Ms Ryan: No … I don’t think we will. A female president, yes but society still has a way to go before it begins accepting gay men and women as being in charge of the country. We have to get them to the point of being able to openly serve their countries first … and marry whomever they’d like to marry
Ms Ryan: once we overcome those obstacles, we can begin looking at running for executive office … I think our grandchildren might see it

Ms Ally: Do you think Barney Frank is hindered more by his gayness, or by his strange speech impediment, as far as his political career goes?
Ms Ryan: speech impediment? Barney Frank? Have you heard the Mayor of Boston speaking? We call HIM Mumbles. Barney Frank is hindered by his timing. He was one of the first to “come out” and I don’t think the government was quite ready for it at the time … so he’s been somewhat “blackballed” … there was quite the smear campaign when he first came out of the closet and I think that still resonates unfortunately

Ms Ryan on Penis Size and Small Penis Humiliation

Ms Ally: Do you enjoy small penis humiliation?
Ms Ryan:Well if they have a small penis, humiliating it is the only enjoyment a woman can get from it! I’m a size queen, always have been … My smallest strapon is 8″ long … if I’m the one with the bigger cock in the relationship, he has to do something for me … laughing seems a natural choice

Spank, Kiss or Push in a Mud Puddle

Ms Ally: Now it’s time to play “Spank, Kiss or Push in a Mud Puddle”. Ready?
Ms Ryan: Ready!
Ms Ally: Madonna
Ms Ryan: Push in a Mud Puddle
Ms Ally: Justin Bieber
Ms Ryan: Spank
Ms Ally: Angelina Jolie
Ms Ryan: Does it matter where I kiss on her?
Ms Ally: No, it’s up to you
Ms Ryan: I’d kiss every inch of her body, beginning with her tattoos
Ms Ally: Anal Greenspan
Ms Ally: Oooops I mean Alan!
Ms Ryan: *cracks up*
Ms Ally: hahahahahaaha
Ms Ryan: He’s going in the mud puddle … he needs the lubrication
Ms Ally: Katy Perry
Ms Ryan: She’s already kissed a girl … and liked it!
Ms Ryan: I’ll do a 2 for 1 with her and her husband Russel Brand
Ms Ryan: kiss them both
Ms Ally: Ms Cassandra
Ms Ryan: I would love to kiss her … those lips of hers are absolutely lush

Ms Ryan on Ms Ally

Ms Ally: Okay, last question.
Ms Ally: What do you think about me?
Ms Ally: This is the last question on every interview. Because it’s what people really want to know. So I save it to last – to get them to read everything that comes before.
Ms Ally: I disable the “scroll down” option on all the interviews
Ms Ryan: I think you are a brilliant woman who saw a need for men to have a place to come and express themselves in ways that wasn’t available at the time. You created the idea of cock control before there were words for it … That makes you a Cock Pioneer!
Ms Ryan: And a savvy business woman, for disabling the scroll!
Ms Ally: That’s what it says on my business cards -“CCP-O” – Chief Cock Pioneer Officer! You must have found one of my business cards in a stripper’s ass crack at the last Las Vegas get together.
Ms Ryan: It wasn’t in her ass
Ms Ryan:
Ms Ally: Yikes, she must have a very flexible….not-ass
Ms Ryan: I’m a breast woman … I found it in her cleavage!
Ms Ally: Ooooh where is my mind!
Ms Ryan: Dirty Woman!

Orgasm Denial – Ms Ryan, In Closing…

Ms Ally: Okay, well thank you for spending some time with me today. Anything you’d like to tell your readers that have made it this far?
Ms Ryan: Everyone at Cock Control has something to offer, but when you find the right one for you, it’s divine. And, sometimes divinity needs to have a bit of an edge … that’s where I come in
Ms Ryan: Thank you for the opportunity to let everyone get a little peek at what makes me tick before the November Promotion starts! I’ll be around all day November 4
Ms Ally: Fabulous!! I’m sure everyone is scheduling a call with you in their Blackberries as we type. Have a great day!