Quite often, I’m asked by visitors of our websites if I think women are “better” than men. Female Superiority is something that interests and intrigues many who are into femdom, or women in control.
I Don’t Think Women are “Superior”
And you know what? I don’t think women are “better”. This may surprise you to hear, since I am heavily involved in the world of men under the erotic control of women. But “better” or “worse” are qualities that are far too simple to be applied to the complexity of an entire gender. There are an infinite number of criteria on which an assessment of ‘better’ or ‘worse’ can be made when it comes to gender, sure. For instance:
– Who’s better at sports? Men or women?
– Who’s better at figure skating – men or women?
– Who’s better at communication – men or women?
– Who’s better at negotiating business transactions – men or women?
– Who’s better at giving oral sex to men? To women?
It’s sexy and fun to think women are superior to men in general. But to subscribe to this philosophy, one must discount the dozens of glaring examples one sees each day of women who certainly to whom the adjective “superior” is inarguably inapplicable. I’ll refrain from listing them here – I’ll let you do that below, if you so desire (smile)
Women are Better than Men at Erotic Domination
However, I do think that women are better than men at erotic control of the opposite sex. In my experience with dominant men, I’ve found that they are still “men” at heart, and at the end of it all they want to fuck (or get a blowjob). This desire involves an inherent weakness – the submissive woman can control the dominant male with this knowledge, if she chooses. Not so for dominant woman. While we do love sex, personally I think most women are better at postponing their desire for sexual fulfillment than men are. And thus they are less susceptible than men are to submissive manipulation. They can stay in control, longer and more thoroughly, than dominant men.
So what do you think? Are women “superior” in general? Are they superior when it comes to being dominant over the opposite sex?
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There are very few people who actually see into my soul. Most of them are women. Cooper does, Andi does, Catherine does, and I believe Alison Dispatch does though I’ve never had a conversation her long enough to know. But from what she shares on EE, I can tell she is the kind of person who probably does.
Medicine man for the local Native American tribe does, we met when he was a guest speaker at a local history class I took, and we became good friends.
This was before I ever explored my femdom desires, but I think he knew I would understand, he told me his tribe is matriarchal. The history books that list the chiefs are wrong, the men weren’t chiefs that were listed, they were ambassadors selected by the council of women. The chief has always been a woman and the tribe decisions are made by a council of women.
This isn’t because women are superior, in the family unit there is equality. It has to do with decisions of the tribe and how they impact people in the tribe and relations with other tribes.
A woman creates life, so it is woman than feels it deepest when that life that she created is taken away. Men on the other hand are created to be competitive and try to take advantage of the weakness others have.
So when a neighboring tribe is having a food shortage and comes to them asking to hunt and harvest on their land, the women are more likely to allow it out of compassion, knowing the pain that is experienced when a mother has to watch her offspring go hungry. But the competitive nature of men on the other hand is more likely to try and take advantage of the weakness in the other tribe and dominate them.
So for that reason, they choose to be matriarchal, because under matriarchy decisions that build peace are more frequent than decisions that result in war.
When he told me this it blew me away because what he told me is exactly what I had experienced in the work place. With a few exceptions, male bosses and male coworkers were competitive without any concern for others while the female bosses and coworkers tended to show more compassion for others.
This is also echoed in the movie “Pretty Woman” where a man who makes his wealth by destroying a company is convinced by woman to instead of destroying a company for its assets, he should build it so those who work there can keep their jobs, even though it is the less profitable course.
Back on topic, I think this is echoed in the type of domination men vs women tend to have.
I love it when I get a blowjob, it makes me feel like a king. Other than BJ I have not been inside a woman but that’s another issue, but there’s a part of me that when that does happen, wants to keep a pair of her panties as some kind of trophy. I know that’s not the right way to look at it, but its not uncommon for males, and that I think is why we usually aren’t as good as sexual domination. Our testosterone and desire for domination interferes with our ability to be sensual and think about her needs and wants.
Women are just such superior dominants … when i meet a Mistress, i melt into a puddle at Her feet … thank You Ms Ally for helping me understand this,
Ms Violet’s suzanne
No individual is superior by virtue of their gender. I have a number of acquaintances that would never take tea with me after that statement.
In our push to legislate sexual equality, we preclude our differences. While I agree that all should have equality regardless of gender, let us remember this is a civilized concept. These ‘man-made’ precepts often serve to further divide us. Are we are so educated / indoctrinated that we forget, or deny, our animal differences? Are men simply driven to sow seed? Do women choose with whom they mate? The answers are obvious.
On penis envy, he said, “Bet you wish you had one of these.” to which she replied, “With one of these, I can get as many of those as I want!”.
Also, factual is defined by prevailing popular opinion. Earth is the center of the universe and only women can commit adultery; it is blasphemy to speak otherwise. It is a matter of dates and human nature predates all thinking.
All forms of prejudice will always exist. Admit it, we constantly judge everything that comes into our own personal world. It is the open mind that can resist ‘pre’ judging and decide ‘better’ or ‘worse’ based on specific merit.
“Submissive manipulation” now that’s an interesting concept. I pretty much agree with your points Ms Ally, however, due to the superior training from your cadre of mistresses… I would say there are now quite a few men becoming adept at postponing their sexual gratification too! lol. And the systematic emasculation of men by the culture at large is now equaling (well not really, but kinda) the playing field as men are having to learn this “submissive manipulation” which you are talking about. Very interesting subject, thanks for the good read!
Goddess Josephine,
I agree with you. There are so many more men who are into cuckolding. It is probaly that there are men like me who would like to expand it into serving both a superior male and female.For various reasons I know I am not worthy to please a superior female. Small penis,small height and being a passive beta male. I also agree with you that women control the sexual arena.
Some men are just weaker than other men and are put on the earth to serve. They should serve all women and the superior males.
tbone thats an interesting observation. I get at least a 1/2 dozen or more calls about cuckolding and many share your superior male with superior female theory. It does seem like cuckolding has increased in it popularity. It seems there are many men feeling they are just not worthy to please a superior beautiful woman.
Women pretty much control the sexual arena regardless if they are dominant or submissive. The sex industry is proof of this.
I’m interested to learn how others feel about women being erotically superior.
I had a live interview with Ms Violet and Ms Jane on this topic. http://www.sensualroleplay.com/live-interview-on-female-supremacy/
Personally and spiritually I support equality, however sexually and erotically female superiority excites me. I am a naturally dominant woman and enjoy control. Any chance I get to express this in its extreme is a real turn on for me.