You desire so many things (800)356-6169
What sparks that first stirring of desire?
Whether it’s the flash of a leg, the sight of a firm derriere or the slightly raised eyebrow of a dominant woman that turns you on, that first spark of desire, for a lot of men, comes from something they see. It’s true for most people, with no regard to gender, that it’s a short step from seeing to wanting. You caress with your eyes, embrace the vision of your object of desire and just can’t look away.
Seeing is wanting, for many.
For others, it’s not seeing that leads to desire, but the thought, the mental energy of that which you yearn for. You can go your whole life without seeing what you want, and yet still desperately want it. You want a nice home, even if you haven’t seen what it looks like. You want a firm Mistress, someone sensual and kind who will guide you and control you (and your cock). You’ve never seen her, not face to face, but you still want that, need that, and desire it with every fiber of your being.
Everyone wants, needs and desires.
The goal of Buddhism is to attain detachment from desire; the basic idea there is that wanting, because wanting can never be utterly satisfied, leads to suffering. To eliminate suffering, you eliminate wanting. In the life of a Buddhist, overcoming desire is the ultimate goal. For most of us, that goal will never be met. For me, as a Mistress, an artist, and a human being with desires, the goal is not to ‘not want’, but instead, to not be attached to the outcome. I want, deeply and passionately, all sorts of things.
Knowing that desire sometimes isn’t met, what’s next?
This is the root of my understanding of denial games. Sometimes, you don’t get what you want. What you desire so much, so deeply and passionately. You want a million dollars and a pony, the orgasm to end all orgasms and a chocolate truffle cake with no calories. You probably won’t get everything that you wish for, and that’s ok. In fact, wanting, desiring, with no end in sight is quintessentially human, and therefore to be embraced. You want something? Good. That means you’re still alive.
Hmmmm I have been told I am good with my hands, my dexterity is excellent, plus I am highly original and creative. The only restraint would be that there would be none, if Milady Harper or Milady Simone wiggles just an inch or so.
Trust me my brush strokes would cease, but only pick up again when one is immobile by constraint of concentration, and yes I have many types of brushes from a sable fan to a sable inch, and please let us not forget about the angled brushes as well. Trust Me Miladies from prior actual experience a pointed tip of pressure works wonders on 3 particular points on a woman, 2 above and one below, but alas, You will never know the pleasure of my strokes…whoops need to go…have to get some more oil that warms with friction for my brush….
And oh yess there is a story behind that one too…
bookman
Bookie, you make that sound like so much fun!
…did you know you can do the brush trick on men too? How good is ~your~ concentration?
so when are you going to come up here and lick my pussy? Love, Simone
The goal of Buddhism is to attain detachment from desire. The goal of the succubus demon is to embrace desire head on. So I have on My inner thigh right now a new set of paint brushes that I bought just for you Ms. Harper but if you want them, you will have to cum get it. (It’s only a two hour drive dear, don’t you Want it) Did I mention I also bought you some acrylics? Hmmmmm…. Desire is good! (Ms. Harper LOVES art supplies boys)
Little known fact: if you take a good quality paint brush, usually a nice sable or even a synthetic sable, and get it wet, when you slide it over skin it feels like a very talented tongue. Now picture that wet brush sliding over your pussy, Simone. In the hands of an artist, someone skilled in brush handling and technique, that brush sliding over and around and across your sensitive labia becomes torturous.
I heard you like torturous pussy worship. To be driven and driven, beyond the edge of desire and then back again?
Of course, the wet brush trick works on all those poor hapless males you catch, too.
Oh, that eyebrow….
You love it when I arch that eyebrow and give you that look, tommieboy. Don’t try to deny it! I know the effect it has on you. (and I do it on purpose!)
Here, have a treat: http://eroticaudios.com/content/Harper/theInsandOutsofDesire.mp3 the audio version of this blog.