Hello my LDW pets! I have had a lot of calls recently saying the same thing… they tell me they have been dying to call me, which makes me very happy! Then they tell me they have wanted to talk to me for a long time, which makes me ask the question…why the wait? Before I could ask that question, lo and behold, they offered up the reason. This is what I found out.
They just didn’t have the courage to pick up the phone and dial the number! They were too scared, too insecure and mainly, too shy! I want you to know, Your phone sex Goddess is here, available for you anytime! Nothing to be afraid of, your kinks are safe with me, my pet! There is no judgment here; you are welcum to be who you are. I hope this blog will encourage you to call any of the lovely ladies here at LDW. I am sure they all feel the same as I! I won’t bite. Unless you want me to.
No really, I have had so many callers tell me they thought about calling for months and months before they actually had the balls to do it.(Except for sissies, who have no balls!* wink*) Think of all the precious time that was wasted! In that time we could have been stroking, denying, acting out role plays, wearing panties, completing assignments, and sharing intense orgasmic adventures!
So, here is an idea. You can email me, and this goes for all the sexy LDW ladies. You can email any one of us. Tell them you are one of the “too shy to call” that MS Meredith caters to in this blog. This can be the first step you take. It’s a baby step, but it will help you ease out of your comfort zone, and yet still feel safe. You can reach me at Meredith@enchantrixempire.com and we can work on your orgasm control.
Or you can IM me at enchantrix.meredith@yahoo.com and we can chat a bit there. Now, keep in mind the IM is not the forum for sexy talk, but a way to ease your fears and work up to a call. It’s PG (no sexy talk) in the IM chat box, so it’s nice and casual chit chat.
Many callers who were hesitant once, just like you, are now long time callers and have settled in to a nice home, a rhythm, a place to confide, tease and explore. I will get to know you, possibly push your limits and make you think. But it’s all done in a safe place and you can feel free to express yourself.
So next time you are holding that phone in your hand, contemplating a call, just do it! I promise, it will be painless. Well, for the most part… No, really! I look forward to exploring every inch of you. So, just make the call!
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Hello Ms Meredith:
It was not the too shy part that caught my eye, but rather the point that many of the guys that were too shy to call have been wanting to for months. I too have wanted to enjoy a session with you for quite some time now. I love your posts. Your pics are to die for, and your voice is heaven.
The reason i have not called is my schedule always seems to get in the way. I typically can’t schedule appointments so most of my calls are usually opportunistic in nature. That is, I unexpectadly find I have some alone time and I jump on the chance to call a mistress. The other reason is that I have found that I enjoy webcam calls. This adds to my difficulty for doing calls because it limits where I can do them. And what’s a webcam call without toys. So getting the computer up with webcam, gathering my toys and being ready for a call takes a little extra time (pre call prep and follow-on clean-up). Add it all up, and I have not yet been able to do what I have wanted to for a long time…call you.
I think I have to put in a little extra effort to make this happen so that I can enjoy some quality time with you. I need to be like the little engine that could….I think I can, I think I can, I think I can 🙂
I can’t wait until our first call and I finally get the chance to be on webcam for you…until then , you will be in my thoughts and probably become an obsession.
I recently had a call with a very sweet gentleman who confessed to me that he’d been a fan of mine for months, but hadn’t taken the plunge to call me. He sent me a sweet email at first, and I told him that I only bite people when they ask me to. We wound up having a wonderful first session!
I think I like the nervous first timers the best. Or, no, I like the confident sexy kinksters who know exactly what they want. On third thought, no, I like them all! From the guys who’s voice shakes and quivers and he whispers his secrets to me to the one who calls up with a detailed fantasy and is utterly confident about what he wants, to everyone in between… there’s something wonderful about each and every one of you!
If it helps, think of it this way: there’s a first time for every new experience. You have to get that first one out of the way so you can have a whole lifetime of amazing experiences. Riding a bike for the first time is scary, going on your first job interview is scary, and asking that cute person you’ve been secretly pining after for a date is terrifying. BUT. If you never ask for what you want, if you never make that initial effort, you will NEVER get what you want. You take the possibility of rejection and turn it into an absolute certainty.
So, here’s my advice. Type up that email, enter the phone number, find the blogs and the IMs and just. Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and hit submit, send, talk, enter… Do it. There’s a sharp cold thrill of adrenaline, and then you’re past it. And in that moment, when you get the response, or hear her pick up the line, you won’t regret it.
The only things in life that I regret are the things I didn’t do, not the things I did.
LDW provides so many ways for those of us who are a little shy, or quiet to get to know a Mistress. Some of us enjoy the whole “vulnerable, sensitive, shy” guy thing and like to feel like we are being brought out of our shell. But, remembering back to those early calls or those rare times I talk to someone new, those butterflies are something exciting and fun to deal with. Like was said before, make that first couple of calls and you’ll realize how fast time goes by with an intelligent Mistress.
What an interesting discussion!
I routinely hear from clients who were afraid to call me and then take the plunge and invariably they wind up being among my favorite regular callers. They discover I am only scary when they are bad, and I am always hopeful clients will be good. And I like them best because I am aware from the start that they respect me and take me seriously which makes me happy.
I adore Miss Piper and she knows that. 🙂 But I must point out that all Mistresses are different. I am genuinely dominant. Not a dominatrix, but used to being in charge. And I do not alter my responses depending on what you are seeking. I am just not good at pretending that way and I have no acting training. I have found it is best just to be upfront about my limitations and I routinely send clients looking for a switch or a softer squishier Mistress to my fabulous peers who enjoy switching. There is an outstanding Mistress here to fit every need.
Just like Miss Piper, I am thrilled to report that every Mistress here delights me and LDW regularly exceeds all expectations. Yay! 🙂 And I LOVE my clients to pieces! *** Flashing a big friendly almost-not-scary-at-all grin. ***
I think the thing to keep in mind about mistresses is that we are just people–and that’s both the good news and the bad news, lol.
I can tell you from being somewhat new here that I *get* feeling intimidated. Before I came to work here, I thought LDW was full of Domination Ninjas, 😉 women with truly superhuman strength.
I applied two times to LDW before I had the confidence that I had what it takes to fit in here. I was never turned down by Ally, but I decided each time that I wasn’t ready. As they say, third time’s the charm, and I set my mind to just commit and do the best I can. 🙂 Now that I’m on the inside, I realize that I had what it took to work here all along. I had the skills, and I certainly had the character to work here, but it was important that *I* believed that, so I don’t regret waiting.
Every single mistress that I have met here is just as warm and wonderful as she seems online. I’ve never had my expectations exceeded by a company or people until now. LDW is truly a special place.
Here’s the thing about mistresses: we’re here for YOU. I know, I know, we all pretend that you’re serving us, but that’s part of the paradox of domination. You all know that the sub is the one *truly* in ultimate control. When a client comes to us, we consider how we can meet his needs. We alter our responses to fit what YOU are requesting from us.
Of course there will be times when a mistress feels another mistress may be best to meet your needs, and we will let you know if that’s the case. It’s not a rejection of you, but it’s our way of looking out for you.
When it comes to email responses. *Sigh* There have been times that I have not replied to some clients as quickly as I should. That’s really not right that I have done that, and I feel terrible. But that’s because I (as well as all of the mistresses) am *human*. We make mistakes. We have bad days. We bite off more than we can chew.
Please cut us a little slack. In any relationship grace and forgiveness keep it healthy. I love working here, and I’m honored to be counted worthy to interact with the best clients in the world, but it is damn hard work. I love the feeling of working hard and accomplishing my goals, but I fall short a lot. I’m sure that the other mistresses fall short much less than I do, but they do make mistakes too.
Some of you clients are knuckleheads and are hard to deal with, but I love you anyway. Working here is truly a labor of love. Nowhere else are you going to get the level of completely free interaction with your mistress. We email you, IM you, respond to EE messages, make free audios for you, post to FB and Twitter…..None of us get compensated for that. The only thing we’re paid for is calls. Why would we do all of these things if we didn’t care about you?
I know that standing where you are, it’s easy to buy into the illusion that we are tough, we are mean, we will kick your ass. And we will, but only if that’s what you want. If you need a kind and gentle ear, you’ve got that too. Just be open and tell us what you need.
Give it a try. I dare you! I think you will be pleasantly surprised. 🙂
Shyness is all a part of the fear factor and sometimes it can be very real and very tough to overcome. We get that! That’s why a great alternative to calling is sexytexting.com. Bear in mind that the chat doesn’t even have to be sexy if that is not what you are ready for, but it is a great option that can keep you feeling at ease while keeping the gates of communication wide open, punkins!
We hear this a lot in Live Help! And I was told this not too long ago by a certain client I won’t name, but he can name himself if he’d like. What I always try to tell everyone is that we aren’t mean (coughgigglecough) we’re fun! And there is nothing to be nervous about! We are here to have fun, just like anyone else is, so we certainly aren’t going to do something that ruins that fun for you (orgasms do get ruined though) or for ourselves. It’s like getting on the wildest rollercoaster at the fair, you might be a little nervous at first, but all you have to do is give it a try. Then you’ll want to do it over and over and over!
Life is to live! Be brave! And if you tell us you’ve been lurking, we’ll be nicer to you (or not) 😉
Cassidy
I can picture you singing this …
The phone rings in the middle of the night
My God that domme is such a beautiful sight
Oh subbie dear don’t be afraid of me hun
Us dommes, we want to have fun …
Shamelessly stolen from the funnest 80s icon and slightly modified to the situation
LMAO!!! Oh Alice! That made me laugh and now I must go listen to the song and put those words in!
Oh there’s no reason to be shy w/ Miss Meredith! She’s a wise & caring MILF, with the experience to draw you out of your shell.
I’ve been an LDW fan for years but I was always scared/shy about calling. While I’ve been a fan of several of the mistresses, nobody turned me on and excited me like Goddess Meredith. On several occasions, I had the LDW number punched into my phone but couldn’t get the nerve to push the last button.
One day, I couldn’t take it anymore so I sent Goddess Meredith an email letting her know what a big fan I am, how much I love her blog, and how I would love to spend time with her. She responded with a warm email which made me feel so good. It made my world.
A few days later, I made my first call to Goddess Meredith. Admittedly, I was nervous but in a good way because I was excited too (I was FINALLY talking to Meredith….THE Meredith). She made me feel welcome and safe and I knew we’d be talking again.
Since then, I have had numerous calls with Goddess Meredith. Every call is special whether we’re having a really hot session or just talking about life. She is my Goddess and I feel very loyal and dedicated to her.
In summary, I’m so glad I got over my shyness. I encourage anybody else who might have similar shyness to take a deep breath and then take a chance. It might be the best thing you ever did.
Mistress… It has not been that sissy is too shy to call, sissy has made many LDW calls over the years. It is just that sissy has never thought about truly submitting to a superior Mistress, admitting that sissy is a sissy and as such giving up all control to Mistress. But Mistress’s extreme beauty and the power of Her pussy over just seems to be drawing this sissy in. Yes Mistres… Your sissy will call and obey!
I did a blog like this recently on my personal blog and was amazed at all the responses!I knew you were out there, I just didnt realize there were so many!I hope this does encourage you to call and give you a vote of confidence!
Alice, you are such a great ambassador for this subject. Thanks!Jay, I am sorry for the delay. Please accept my apology and dont take it personally. Alice is right, sometimes things go to spam.Maybe we could try an actual call sometime? I would love that!
Afterall, like Ally said- its guaranteed!
Thank You for your comments , and my spilling of my soul was nothing that required a therapist . And to honor the trust the mistress placed in me I will not talk abour our conversations . Thank You again
I was a too shy to call , sent Merdith an email once it took almost a month for her reply . That did nothing to alleviate my shyness . There was another Mistress ( who will remain nameless) who I was or so I thought developing a beautiful phone relationship with . I was opening up to her and exposing my secrets to her . Then out of the blue she stopped responding to my emails , I was later told she was too busy . And I couldn’t reach her by phone . I felt exposed , vulnerable and ultimately betrayed . Yes that also reinforced my shyness . I don’t know , thanks for the offer but I will remain in the background where I can’t get hurt .
Hi Jay,
I am a caller. I sympathize with what you are expressing, I hope you do not mind if I address them.
With respect to response time from the Mistresses, there are some possibilities. I know that sometimes my e-mail has ended up in spam folders. I don’t know specifically in the case of LDW domme’s but I’ve sent e-mails to myself (other accounts) that have ended up in spam because my spam filters were set too aggressively. I bet a lot of the Mistresses run aggressive spam filters because their e-mail addresses are out there on popular websites. Even with aggressive spam filters, if your e-mail is not flagged as spam they still probably have a lot of junk mail to sort through.
That’s not always the case, and I have no idea if that is the case with you or not. Most of the mistresses I have talked to have school and/or other jobs they work, sometimes things just get really busy. If you are trying to contact one and do not get a response, you can try helpmycock which has a live person that will probably be able to help you establish communication. The live person is not some outsourced generic person, the live person works for LDW specifically and understands your need for privacy. Once when I had trouble communicating, I found out the particular mistress was in school near end of semester and just had some medical work done, explaining why she really was short on time.
With respect to spilling your soul to a domme and then feeling betrayed when she could no longer continue the communication, I don’t know what to say but if you are sharing personal details that sensitive you may be better off doing it with a therapist rather than a fantasy entertainment company. It is quite possible the domme you are referring to had a change of direction in her life, it happens. With a therapist transitions, should they need to happen, are usually handled better because that’s their profession.
The domme I think I’ve spent the most time with actually encouraged me to talk to others as well, she thought it would be good for me and perhaps thats why. I have shared some secret sensitive stuff with her, I trust her, but because I took her advice and opened up dialog with others as well, I know that if something happened where she could not correspond with me, I would be very sad to see that end but I already know that I would be able to continue my journey with others because I have already built trust with others as well. That actually has helped me come out of my shell quite a bit.
I would encourage you to continue your journey, maybe get to know a few on Enchantrix Empire a little bit before calling.
Thank you for your time, and I hope this did not come off as insulting or patronizing. That is not my intent. I want you (and everyone shy like me) to be able to experience what I have experienced, for me it feels truly liberating.
Hi Jay
I’m so sorry that you had such a poor initial experience with connecting with a Mistress. I know that I have a tendency to get ovewhelmed with emails, and I’ve let things fall through the cracks in the past. All I can do each time is try again to be better.
Let me share something with you, and I hope you don’t think I’m being preachy or weird. I used to be shy. I used to be convinced that staying on the edge of things was the safest, sanest and most logical choice. I thought if I kept my heart and soul hidden away that no one could hurt me again. I’d been hurt, you see, and so… I hid.
It took me a few years of misery before I realized something. When you hide yourself on the edge of existence, you’re missing out. It’s only when you take the risk that you’ll be hurt that you get to come anywhere near the elation of life.
I hope that you find the strength to face possible rejection, because in the same instant that rejection is possible, so is acceptance, bliss and joy.
~Harper
JR after reading your post I feel bad that it took a month to get a response and also the situation with opening up to someone and then being told they are too busy to reply and that you should call. Yes it is true we all get busy….yes there are times when things slip through the cracks…but that does not make it right at all especially from where you are sitting. We are not perfect but we sure do try hard to make sure everyone who contacts us gets a timely response and feels good about our interactions. With all this said If you are looking to connect feel free to mail me IM me and I will get back to you asap I would also like to offer you a free call with me in hopes to show you that you do not have to sit on the side line watching but take a chance and jump back in.
Aw, don’t be shy everyone! We know from talking to our callers who were lurkers for months or even years before they called, that sometimes it takes a while to work up the nerve to call. To help you become more comfortable, we have many ways for you to get to know the Mistresses before you call. Stop by our Social Network, Enchantrixempire.com, to get to know the ladies in a fun, no pressure environment. Email and Instant Message is also a great way to get to know them before you call.
Don’t be shy – the experience will be worth it…we guaranty it!
Years, um, that would definitely be me …
Thanks for keeping it all up and running while I waited 😉
As one of the callers who was too shy to call Meredith for a very long time, I can personally attest to how silly it was. If you are shy, intimidated by her beauty, whatever, Meredith is extremely warm and friendly and will make you feel like you are in heaven. I am very glad I called her.