I must admit it when a caller asks if I switch roles, it is a surprise. Me? The Empress of Happy Endings, submit to YOU? That’s pretty cheeky.
My snap answer would be – you’ve got a Tinker’s Chance in Hell – but sometimes, once in a blue moon – a fellow comes along that sparks something in me and I remember my past, and the time I spent as a well-trained service submissive. I confess that there have been special men, who take the time and effort to know me, and who broach the subject are told … maybe. 🙂
BDSM Training Old School
I know most of you would be surprised to hear that Mistress was willingly schooled in the kinky arts, from the bottom UP. Long before my Lifestyle went main stream, Women like me who were interested in becoming a BDSM Master, always began the journey as a submissive, Trained by One – but in service to the entire Leather Family.
It wasn’t easy, that’s for sure. It is most difficult, putting your true nature to the side in order to become the kind of Fem Dom that others would want to submit to. But, that is how it was done, way before the `nilla world was introduced to my world in films, TV or books.
Watering Down a Vibrant Way of Life
Movies like 9 1/2 Weeks and The Story of O were mainstream America’s first taste of an alternate lifestyle. Mild by comparison to my own experiences, it was a glimpse into the world of Bedroom BDSM, and the start of what many Lifestylers think of as the dummying down of a rich and vibrant way of life.
It wasn’t until 2002 – with the release of the movie Secretary, that the world would see the true dynamic of Top and bottom. Most may have thought it was a fantasy film, but for me – it brought back sweet memories of my own experiences, when I was a well-loved service submissive.
Life Stories
All this thinking back to another time has me in a magnums mood, and ready to share a story or two about what it was like to start at the bottom, and rise to the Top. Tell me dear ones…
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I loved Secretary. When he leans her over the desk and spanks her – still gets my panties damp!
Great post Ms Vivian! 🙂
I can’t say that I have had many
subbies switch but maybe I will…LOL
After this post, I wonder if any of My
pets think they have sufficient bawls to try…;)
Well – that clears up what commentluv does 😉
Oh thanks Sloane – I debated if I should share that much from my past – but- in the spirit of full disclosure – I did.
Hey, that rocks! 🙂
I’m re-visting my past on my blog as well 🙂
Hi Ms Vivian,
So how does a sub switch to dominant or even become a dominant?
What is with the Website request? Is that for people who have their own blog? Would I enter my facebook page?
xoxoxo,
Jenni
//tech none kink
I think you can put anything you want in the Website and it will make your name a link to that page.
I just tried – see what happens.
I think it’s a standard WordPress feature. I’d personally have it use a white list of approved domains only if I was the admin, just to avoid comment spamming through it. Maybe it does? Click my name and see.
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It looks like commentluv can interact with it.
When I put in the URL – commentluv resulted in an annoying mouseover effect. That plugin could be done better.
Jenni I think I pretty much told how it was done in my day. Got no clue about the website request.
I have had a few fantasies where I’m the top but it always ends up not being fun and the only way to make it fun is to then have the fantasy sub turn the tables. I’m actually writing something along that line that I’m hoping to do as a custom audio with Sloane.
But to answer your specific question, yes, there was one time when I asked an LDW domme, Olivia, if she was willing to play the role of a submissive. But not to me. The idea was for a two-mistress call with her and Enchantrix Bailey who is no longer here, where we both would be submissive to Bailey. It would have been one hell of a fun call but unfortunately for me, Bailey moved on before it could happen.
I personally don’t think it is in my nature to ever top a woman let alone a domme even if the domme does switch.
But the thought of being the bottom with another female sub to a domme is highly erotic. Even if the female sub is role playing and not actually a natural submissive.
I’ve heard it said that good dominants usually have experience as submissives but I’m beginning to question whether that is actually true or just sounds good and perhaps is coincidental rather than true for a reason.
I guess time will tell as more and more domme’s who weren’t ever submissives start to appear.
BTW – I loved Secretary. 🙂