An SPH Subbie’s Journey in Pain Play

Working out your kinks & discovering what they are is one of the most fascinating parts of being in the kink community. It comes with lot of interesting detours, experimentation, and fun along the way until you find your niche. One of my subbies recently discovered exactly where he fits in: He is a submissive pain slut & humiliation whore.

Figuring Out Your Kinks

When we 1st spoke, it was revealed he loved being mocked about certain…ahem…shortcomings in his anatomy, and that he had a deep core of submissiveness & a yearning to please & to serve. He thrived on verbal humiliation, loved the pain and mental anguish of knowing everything I said was the truth, and adored knowing that his whimpers and moans were entertaining to me. He was thrilled that I loved humiliating him as much as he loved being verbally flayed, but still wanted more. He just didn’t know what. Something, as long as it would please me. Being the good-natured sadist that I am, I suggested pain play.

Pain & Pleasure Can Sometimes Be One & the Same

It turns out the addition of physical pain was precisely what he needed. Emotional pain & physical pain are already pretty closely linked in how your brain processes them, so it seemed like a natural progression, and from the first few moments I had him experimenting with impact play, I knew we’d hit upon exactly the combination his submissive heart desired. By the end of our second session combining physical & emotional pain, he managed to cum from pain alone, no stroking required! Much to his surprise, he climaxed via a weakened version of my napalm lube, spanking with a metal spatula, and crushing his cock with a weighted skillet.

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