Ally of Cock Control
By Ms Ally,
HeadMistress, www.cockcontrol.com

I think there are some that assume that “cock control” and femdom are inseparable when it comes to cock control phone sex. While it is true that the Mistresses at Cock Control are all wonderfully intelligent and capable of being deliciously controlling, it’s not necessary for you to be “submissive”, or into BDSM, to enjoy a Cock Control phone session.

Cock Control, Teasing and Denial, Orgasm Denial: Women on Top

The one thing that almost all of our callers do have in common is: they want to talk to a woman who is comfortable being in control. Now, being “in control” does not mean yelling, screaming and degrading. Personally, my favorite way to control a man is with sexiness. Each man will have a different way that he can best be controlled. Some are seduced by intelligence. Some are suckers for a soft, purring voice. Some like to be teased with panties, long, gorgeous legs, a nice round ass or a great set of tits. The key to controlling a man, in my experience, is not to yell and scream and degrade. Rather, the most effective way to wrap a man around one’s finger is to explore and find his “sexual Kryptonite”, the one thing, or combination of things, that make him weak in the knees, painfully aroused, and ultimately, easily controlled. So turned on my the sexiness of me that he will do anything I ask.

Those who call Cock Control for phone sex sessions are often looking for:

Guided Masturbation


Guided Masturbation: This type of Cock Control phone session is usually the least “femdom”-oriented type of session. In a guided masturbation session, the phone Mistress will instruct you on stroking techniques, the pace of your stroking, the timing of your arousal. A skilled Guided Masturbation Mistress (or “masturbatrix” will be able to play you like an instrument, by listening to your breathing, your moaning, even the squishy sounds in your stroking to increase or decrease the intensity of your arousal as she sees fit. A guided masturbation session often ends in a particularly mind blowing orgasm. Most of the time (but not always), guided masturbation and orgasm denial don’t go hand in hand.

Tease and Denial


Tease and denial is one step closer to straight-up orgasm denial. At the start of a tease and denial session, I will give you three choices:

1. Do you want to end the session with an orgasm?
2. Do you NOT want to end the session with an orgasm?
3. Do you want me to decide if you get to have an orgasm?

Disclaimer: While I don’t often get to do phone sessions these days, if we do have the chance to have a session, here’s your fair warning! If I ask you these questions, and you pick #3, you WILL not get to cum. I’ll tell you that right up front. If you want to play with denial, you will get denial. And I take great pleasure toward the end of the session making you think that there is something you can do to change that fate. When you’re all desperate and achy and begging for mercy, I will ask you if you want me to change my mind. I will ask you if you want to finish this first session off with an O and start fresh next session with the orgasm denial training. I will ask you if you want to try to beg and plead convincingly enough to change my mind. And 99% of the time, you will say “Yes yes yes PLEASE change your mind, I want to cum so bad!”

And I will laugh, and say “Nope! Take your hand off your cock. We’re done for the night. Try again tomorrow. Tonight is not your night.”

And you might cry. And you might curse me. And of course you might hang up the phone and finish yourself off without permission.

But you will try again tomorrow. That much is pretty much guarantied.

Orgasm Denial


Some of our callers know from the start of the call that they do not want to cum at the end. Some have worked themselves up to many days, weeks, occasionally even months without an orgasm. Occasionally, I’ll get feedback from a caller who wanted orgasm denial, and didn’t get it (not on calls with ME, of course!) So here’s the thing: If you want to explore your limits of long term orgasm denial, make this VERY clear at the start of the call. To many men, orgasm denial doesn’t make sense at all! Many phone sex callers would feel terribly disappointed if they didn’t get to “finish” at the end. So if you’re definitely interested end ending your session in frustration, make this absolutely clear at the start of the call. Because once the arousal peaks, and you’re crying and begging, you sound VERY convincing. All but the most experienced of Orgasm Denial Mistresses may mistakenly believe that you’ve truly changed your mind, and that you’ll truly be disappointed if you don’t get to have an orgasm. So get that out of the way at the start of the call.

Setting Up a Great Cock Control Session


To greatly increase the chances that your call will go exactly the way you are hoping, use our many pre-call communication options:

1. Email the Mistress you’d like to talk to, and tell her what you’re into
2. Send a Yahoo IM
3. Join enchantrixempire.com and interact with the Mistresses to find one that’s on the same page as you
4. Use our Pre-Call Questionnaire to outline what you are looking for, and I can recommend someone for you

For an erotic phone sex session, dial 800-601-6975.
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Calls are $ per minute, with a 10 minute minimum
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