ms lauren of cockcontrolHow to Communicate Your Tease and Denial Desires to Your Phone Mistress
by Ms Lauren of http://www.kinkblogger.com

The Importance of Communication in a Tease and Denial Session

The key to getting a great call with the phone mistress of your choice lies in communicating your desires openly and honestly. This goes double for a tease and denial caller because if you’ve not shared your feelings you may find your experience quite different from the ideal you’re seeking. Today, I’ll help you evaluate ways to let your phone mistress know exactly what you want. This way you both win… she won’t feel as if she’s having to read your mind and you’ll get exactly what you want from your tease and denial session.

To Cum or Not to Cum

Many a great tease and denial session goes wrong when communication breaks on the issue of orgasm. Some men love to be teased to the edge, over and over, then explode in a glorious abandon. Some love to be cockteased until their balls are big and blue, then denied final release. Some love it when that delicious orgasm that’s been building up is ruined. And some men? Some men leave the decision to their phone mistress. Which category do you fall into? Don’t you think that’s a key piece of information to share with your mistress?

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Teased and Denied… To a Point

Let’s say you’ve called in for an extended tease and denial session. Of course you know what you want, but you’ve not shared that with your mistress. So you’ve stroked hard to her direction, anticipating the moment her firm no’s become soft, sensual yes’s. You wait and wait, but the yes never comes. You hang up unsatisfied and wonder what went wrong. Did she ask you if you wanted to come? Did you tell her when she asked you? Sharing that vital detail would make the difference between a hot, satisfying call and blueball.

Erotic Denial, When Cumming Just Won’t Do

Do you enjoy the feel of your swollen sack reminding you your orgasm is controlled? Saying the words “I don’t want you to let me cum” is a simple way of letting your mistress know. Some men are cagey about it, thinking their mistress can read their mind. Others beg and plead without saying what they want and when given the orgasm are disappointed. In order for your mistress to know about your erotic denial desires, you have to tell her when asked or volunteer it. Stating your desires assures you’ll get the perfect orgasm denial call.

Ruined Orgasms

Maybe you just love the humiliation of a ruined orgasm. You’ve been edging for what seems like forever and erotic denial or a full on orgasm just won’t do. So when your mistress says yes or no, you’re left unsatisfied in the wrong way. To get the type of disappointing satisfaction you’re seeking, you should talk about ruined orgasms with your phone mistress. Not only can you help her choose the perfect technique to ruin your orgasm, you might also discover other erotic techniques to keep you empty and aching!

Your Orgasm, My Decision

When you give your mistress the choice of denying you or satisfying you, she’ll most likely deny you. But at random times, even the most strict phone mistress decides to be generous… and that might not be what you’re looking for. That’s why communicating your desires is important. You might want to give her the illusion of control, but don’t want her to let you cum. In that case, when she asks let her know you need her to be strong for the both of you. There’s a tricky line there between me making the choice and you getting exactly the call you’re looking for. If you can’t make up your mind, just say the word and she’ll most likely take it as a no and deny you.

Communication your Tease and Denial Preferences Before the Call

The ladies of LDW offer many ways of getting to know us before you call. First, we have an awesome social network, Enchantrix Empire. You can message us there and we also offer an active chat room. Second, we have the Live Help Feature so you can ask questions about the phone mistresses you might be considering. Third, Ms Ally offers a Mistress Finder feature so she can help you choose the perfect phone mistress for your tease and denial needs. We also offer a couple of other ways to get to know your phone mistress (and give her a chance to get to know you!).

Tease and Denial Pre-Session Questionnaires

Some men are shy about saying the words, yet not all coy about typing them. A pre-session questionnaire gives you a chance too put those things you might be afraid to say into words. You get the opportunity to share your desires without having to say it directly. While you might feel it takes away from the mystery and spontaneity of the session, the opposite is true. Your answers provide a loose outline for your phone mistress to weave a creative fantasy. When that pressure is off, the both of you are able to relax and feel the fantasy rather than struggling to find common ground.

Pre-Call Messaging and Email

If you have questions and concerns before your call, you should contact your phone mistress beforehand. Most of us have our Yahoo Messenger ids on our blogs and pages. If you have a special fantasy or needs, you should always feel free to message your mistress beforehand. If that’s not your thing, email provides a quick, easy way for you to share.

Tease and Denial Session Satisfaction

We’ve went over way to communicate your desires to your phone mistress. It’s always our goal to provide you with complete satisfaction, even if it’s in extreme denial. So remember, don’t be shy with your phone mistress if you want perfection. Coy and shy are cute, but we aren’t mind readers. Questions are the way we get to the heart of your desire, so don’t be afraid to answer… it’s not a pop quiz, it’s all about making the most of our time together.

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