I’m curious about you
Do you have a life and lifestyle that you can be open about your erotic desires and kinky fetish needs? When I ask that question of phone sex callers, the majority of you say that your phone sex life is separate from other aspects of your life. I think that is appropriate; not all sharing is recommended! BUT, some of you agonize that you don’t have a special someone who really knows you, the whole you.
Who knows your sexual secrets?
I know that many of you want to know if the Experienced Mistress will understand your unique sexual fantasy. This blog asks a question related to that. Who do you talk with that can understand as much as you want to share – especially when you want to have a conversation that is more than just an erotic fantasy?
Do you have questions about submissive feelings?
There’s a lot on the internet about Dominance and submission. Many phone sex callers have told Me they have tried to talk to their partner and get her to be a Femdom. Erm….that usually doesn’t go so well because your girlfriend or wife probably doesn’t even understand what a Mistress really does! So, where do you ask your questions about what it means to be submissive?
Trying to get your wife to cuckold you?
Others of you ask, “How can I get my wife to cuckold me?” Some women will want to be the hot wife but I doubt you’ll really find what you want. Most females aren’t actively involved in fetish topics enough to understand all the nuances of cuckolding fantasies.
Your fantasies and need to connect are perfect for phone sex
Whether you want just the fantasy scene delivered in My sultry voice which you can hear in this free erotic audio … or you want intelligent conversation about anything and everything … I’d like to hear from you! My twitter is MistressOlivia1 and my email is olivia AT enchantrixempire.com. When you post a comment on any of My blogs I promise I will leave you a thoughtful answer on the blog. And, as always, I love to talk with you on the phone.
~smiles~
Ms Olivia
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Dear Mistress Olivia, It is becoming more fetish friendly.Thank you for helping me achieve that.sincerly yours sissy slave ted
Hi Olivia. I was very happy to see both this blog post and your last one about wearing panties. Both of these are big issues for me. I have a double life — the “regular” me who is a successful professional and family man, and the me who has only recently-unleashed desires and fetishes, including wearing panties, that comes to the LDW/EE world. It is hard sometimes. I struggle with being both people — accepting that it is okay to have the desires and fetishes I have. It is exciting and exhilarating to explore these fantasies in the LDW/EE world, but very lonely and hard in the rest of my life. I don’t have anyone to talk to about this in the rest of my life and these are not the kinds of things anyone close to me would understand. It is great to know I won’t be judged or looked down on in the LDW/EE world and will often be encouraged, but the journey of self-discovery I am on isn’t always easy and sometimes even in the LDW/EE world I find it hard to get understanding and support. It was great to see you writing about these topics and see other people commenting. It felt a little less lonely. I would love to hear your thoughts. Thank you.
Hello bfla! Thank you so much for leaving your comment and I’ve got several thoughts (lol, I always have lots of thoughts)!
First of all, your comment is one of the main reasons why Ms Ally created our unique adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire!
Many people find themselves in a situation where they want to talk about these things with likeminded people in a private setting but not always just in your sessions with your special Mistress.
I can tell you that you’re not alone with struggling with how much of this to share in your real life. That is very common as you can see in this Experienced Mistress post on that topic!
http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2011/02/results-of-sex-secrets-poll-where-do-you-fall/
I also want you to know that we take our roles as confidante and friend very seriously! I often find Myself giving advice and suggestions on many topics during a private, individualized session. I give lots of general advice on blogs and such when we’re outside of a session. You can see more about that here:
http://www.experiencedmistress.com/2011/05/mistress-as-sex-therapist-im-chat-and-twitter-sexinfobabe/
Oh and one note, I have a new twitter name: MistressOlivia1. ~smiles~ I’m so glad you took the time to leave a comment. There are MANY people who are thinking and feeling the exact same things as you are!
I am the same person whether it be here or in the vanilla world. I do like that there are some things that I can freely talk about, and I also like tommies description, in the Floating World that I have very few opportunities to talk about in the vanilla. Although if I am asked about things, here or there, I am open and speak freely about these things. I believe that if you feel you can ask me a question about something then I can talk openly about the same subject.
I absolutely agree with you Forrest! And, that is one of the best things about our community!
Some of the really interesting conversations in our Floating World that we would never have in “real life”…..although with that “real life” thingy I think our connections ARE real, sometimes more real than in person life.
I love, love, love your comments…and I’ve learned a lot from you! You’re opened My eyes to things I hadn’t known about and I’m really grateful to you for that!
I agree Ms Olivia, I have made many connections out here in the Floating World, some of them I might even say are stronger than some of my real world connections. I am both pleased and humbled that I have shown you new things. I too have learned from you and am happy for that as well.
Oh YES Forrest….and not the least of it is your lube reviews on Ms Constance’s blog….I think of you every single time I smell bacon and I laugh! People look at me funny but hey, there’s absolutely NO explaining THAT one! LOL
Seriously, some of the private emails we’ve exchanged and you sharing yourself with me has touched my heart, made me think and yes, made me laugh out loud! 🙂
I lead a mostly vanilla-looking life when I’m away from here, although certain ladies have fulfilled a number of my sexual fantasies in real life (and I hope I’ve fulfilled some of theirs). A few of my fantasies I don’t even want to have fulfilled in real life, and a number of others I enjoy in different ways on the phone and in real life.
I’m sure my employers would not want to keep employing me if they knew about some of my kinks.
As for my Mistress, I enjoy the sexuality and excitement, but also the friendship that has developed between us almost from the start.
And finally, there is an appeal to the secret EE network all its own, akin to the appeal of the Victorian porn classic My Secret Life. It’s a Floating World in which we can be what and who we want to be, free of most of the limitations imposed by others we love and others we don’t love in our daily lives.
Thank you so much for your comment tommie!
I agree with you….I love the community that we have on EE! We talk about way more than just kinky stuff…and that is part of the community building process. We have a vibrant and varied community where we talk about ourselves and listen in a non-judgmental manner. For the topics that don’t appeal to someone, it’s okay to say, hey that’s not my thing. I’ve learned a lot about everyone and myself there! Isn’t that the best!
I also agree that there are some fantasies that even I don’t want fulfilled in real life! 🙂 I love the chance to *play* with others!
I also love that you call this the Floating World.
THANK YOU so very much for commenting Alice! I love what you said about Enchantrix Empire being a *real* community and I agree. Yes, we do talk about adult themes but there’s so much more there. You’ve been able to get to know Me as more than *just* the Experienced Mistress and you know that all of the Mistress friends there are interested in way more than merely phone sex! Like you, I don’t wear My kinks on My kinks on display all the time. I think there is something to be said for the “time and place” of appropriate actions. I’ve been lucky about family in that I’ve been able to say that I *do* phone sex but I don’t go into details AND the only people that know about full adults with sensible, non judgmental minds. I’m lucky about that. THANK YOU for your participation and your thoughtful comments here and on EE! ~sends you a hug~
This is an issue for me. If my mother knew I liked to wear panties it would break her heart. I can’t do that to her. I don’t really have anyone outside of the Enchantrix Empire world that I can discuss this with.
I confess it does bring some feelings of loneliness, on the one hand sometimes I feel if I’m ostricized it’s their loss but on the other hand family is family so it would be my loss too.
So I live a double life. M****** in one world, Alice in the other. I prefer to be Alice.
I’ve never been a social butterfly, so picking up the right kind of friends close to me isn’t going to be easy. Especially since I don’t want word to get out to family. But it’s not so bad because even though it is only digital, EE is a real community where we are not judged. I was going to say `even though it is only virtual’ but it is definitely more than virtual, it is very real.
Coming up with a social network was a brilliant idea for those of us who need it.
I know what you mean Alice….well, my version of what you mean. When I started doing phone sex I actually told my immediate family. I’m not ashamed or embarrassed. I met my partner while doing phone sex and certainly had to have The Talk pretty early in the relationship to explain many things, including why I’m able to work from home and make my own hours. The phone sex career talk was pretty easy because I knew I wanted a kinky relationship so we had to see if we were compatible there. BUT, I too play inside of Enchantrix Empire because even my primary partner or real life BDsm friends don’t fulfill every need. That’s the nature of being an adventurous human! ~grinz~ So, even though I’ve got a tad more latitude than you do, I’m grateful for EE as well. I meet great people (LIKE YOU!) and learn/experience/get to watch all sorts of fun interactions … and, you’re right …. the emotions are VERY REAL!
~hugs and more Alice~