I’ve been away at real life fetish play. One of the many things I’ve been thinking about is the huge diversity in our fetish and kinky community! I consider YOU part of My fetish community because our time together is intense, even though it’s on the phone. People who are new to phone sex have no idea just how passionate our relationships can be!
What is BDsm?
Well, the acronym BDsm means bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism and that can mean pretty much anything. From the vanilla sex side of things, it can be tied up with a scarf and sensually seduced. For the crossdressers and sissy girls, that might mean a spanking on a pretty panty covered bottom maybe even after you become a crossdresser in chastity. For others, you might be a deeply submissive pain slut yearning for a strict Mistress.
This is a comment from magnus posted some time ago. I’ve been thinking about this and much more…so, let’s talk in the comments section!
What is REAL Bdsm?
magnus says: “I’ve seen posts before at other places by people complaining about those who are just interested in doing some things to spice up their relationship like the occasional getting tied up in bed or being spanked. That somehow those people are not really into D/s because they aren’t totally into the scene. I find that to be BS because I don’t think there are any real rules to what comprises D/s as long as all parties are willing and safe. Do You have any thoughts on that?”
I think that’s a great comment and question magnus! What do other readers think? Does it matter what you call it if it feels good? I’ll do another blog post from your comments and My replies with more thoughts from Me. So, have fun leaving comments and I’m looking forward to your replies!
Ms Olivia
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I hear you sissy slave ted! The emotions and the amazing feeling from phone sex no matter what type of sexual fantasy are VERY REAL! Witness just how attached you are to you Femdom Mistress! I love playing with Ms Christine and you’ve made a very good choice! Thanks for your comment.
I agree with Ms O and Ms V…why bother trying to put a title on it. If you enjoy it, and it’s mutual…then go for it.
Another fabulous, intelligent posting from you dear Ms O. To answer your question would be to place judgement upon another person’s kink. I feel that we all have the right to delve into any adult, mutual aspect of sex we choose to…and at the depth of exploration that pleases us. Which is why I agree with you, Ms O, that if it feels good…is it important what we call it?
i agree with both Miss Violet and Ms Olivia…great blog
Hello Olivia,
I was writing an article about feminism and porn, a response to an article by a feminazi about how all porn was anti-woman.
Before I finished, I read another article by her that made me stop writing mine. Her second article was on BDSM porn where she was very highly critical of BDSM porn that she refused to even watch before writing, she was criticizing it based on a description alone, and then she went into a huge anti-BDSM rant that clearly indicated she did not even want to see the perspective of those who enjoy it, and certainly had not talked to anyone who enjoys it. So she basically was not qualified to write about it. That brought me to the conclusion that I’m not qualified to write about feminism and porn because simply being male, it would require a hell of a lot of research for me to fairly represent feminism and feminism issues.
To be honest I’m not sure how qualified I am to even speak about BDSM having only experienced play over the phone, play where the it’s the woman’s job to indulge my fantasies and not something we are doing for each other because we really are into each other.
But something I learned very quickly after calling LDW (only company I’ve ever called) is that phonesex can be just about getting off but if you let it, it goes so much deeper than that. With me it wants to go so much deeper than that. Many of the Mistresses I believe I’ve connected with on a level that has nothing to do with sexual gratification, that scares me somewhat but it also is very fulfilling and I’m glad it has worked out that way.
A few I have really developed trust with, and that allows me open up not only to them but open up to myself, and if that is not the foundation for real BDSM then I don’t have a clue what real BDSM is.
WOW, Alice! I can’t friggin believe I missed this comment from you! ~sigh~ Okay, this comment back is late but you bring up such great points that I’m going to answer you in a blog post! You know you’re very …. ahem …. INSPIRATIONAL to this Mistress! ~grinz~ THANK YOU!
I am not interested in doing a few things to spice up my life.i desire to be the slave of a strong and powerful mistress, and I am, i am the property of a beautiful and powerful Mistress Empress Christine…I am so thankful to be her slave, someday if I am lucky I can serve a mistress in person, thank you sincerely yours sissy slave ted. Empress Christine is the best thing that has happened in my life in a long time…she is very real.judgemental people just do not know, i say lead your life and be busy and maybe you will not judge others …one day at a time we will get where we are going. sincerely yours sissy slave ted
I believe phone sex is real BDsm play. i am not a real fantasy kinda of person, I do not daydream, i really, really do not do try to escape from reality…I do not drink or do drugs, i do not want to change my consciousness, i want to be aware and awake and treasure every moment with my
Mistress Empress Christine thankyou for your love and support. Emmpress Christine seems pretty real to me. sincerly yours sissy slave ted
yes Mistress Olivia,i hope you enjoyed your little vacation.sincerly yours sissy slave ted