How To Please Your Mistress

How do you please your Mistress? Do you know? Are you looking for a Mistress and are concerned, and you don’t have a clue? Well hang on to your knish, let’s take a look at how you can please your Mistress.

How To Please Your Mistress

I get asked all the time “How do I please you” or ” tell me how to please you”.  The answer is simple and complex.  I can tell that  you are a smart fella, I’m sure you can follow along! Of course every Mistress is different and has different particular criteria for her submissive pets. However, I think there are some universal behaviors every Mistress will appreciate and /or require. Pay heed and learn well. Moving forward these habits just might even earn you some submissive points towards a reward down the road!

Her Pleasure Is your Pleasure

If you are new and exploring submission this might be a hard pill to swallow. Putting someone else and their needs isn’t necessarily something that’s paramount during your indoctrination. It isn’t your fault. I get that , and am patient. I want you to really starting thinking through and commit to the concept. Be open minded and allow your lessons to penetrate and help create who you crave to be: Submissive But what does “Her pleasure is your pleasure look like, I hear you asking.   Of course  her orgasms come first. That’s an easy one. Right? What else? Well, her needs being met is  always required. Pet. But what ARE her needs. You will have to pay attention. Find out more about her. Ask questions. Is she the kind of woman who appreciates trinkets as gifts? Better find out what she likes. Does she like erotic writing or poetry? Let’s get creative and work those words! Does she love to be worshiped? Then learn the proper way to worship your Mistress! Perhaps being the first to greet her every morning with a positive message is more to her liking? Maybe she’s like me, adoring humor. Clever, silly and ironic are all ways to delight me. Whatever it is, find out what it is and do it.

Please Your Mistress: Be Obedient

This may seem like a silly thing to mention. But does bear mentioning. If you are submissive and lead by a Dominant you represent them in all things. Your poor behavior with others reflect poorly upon Your Mistress. So your obedience not only is for her, and during sessions but in all things you do. Ask yourself, would Mistress be proud of me? If the answer is no- then don’t do it. Obey my command with each breath and step: You are mine and  you represent me in all things.

Please Your Mistress: Be Clever

Be an active participant in your journey! Submissive isn’t akin to being mute! Be engaging!  You have opportunities to speak with your Mistress regarding how you are feeling, what you found really hot about a session. Expressing your desire to explore and communicating to her about pushing your boundaries is a must! Negotiations never stop  and continue to evolve during your journey. Next,  you have a hundred different ways you can make her think of you. Remind her of your devotion and dedication to her pleasure. That is if you did your homework rule number 1 that is : Her pleasure is your pleasure. Looking ahead it is these attention to details that will impress and please your Mistress. What those particulars are depend on the Mistress. That’s your job as a submissive to learn those particulars and to execute them appropriately. Lastly , whatever you do : Be yourself! Your connection with your Mistress is unique and individual as the people involved.  Sometimes people click sometimes they don’t. Mistress and submissive’s are no different. If you start out trying to BE the submissive you THINK she wants you are setting both of you up for disappointment. You don’t want that. I don’t want that. I wish you well on YOUR submissive journey, if you want to talk with me further on this or any other kinky subject check me out at Intelligent Phone Fantasy and give me a call!

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