Cuckold Fluffer Guide

 

Cuckold Fluffer Guide

An Introduction

In this post, we will examine the the intricate world of Cuckold Play for couples, and the many aspects of this area of exploration can offer is abundant, so today we shall focus on the Cuckold Fluffer area, and how YOU as a husband and an aspiring cuckold can become the best fluffer you can be for your wife and her chosen Alpha Lover.

As you all know, my extensive experience as a Managing Partner in an Exclusive Domination Club, in addition to practicing Dominatrix/lifestyle Mistress to the Rich and Famous, Upper Echelon, High Society couples, I’ve seen first hand how a regular married life does not have to be boring and monotonous.

Even without limitless finances, the most humdrum of marriage can turn into the most exciting adventure of endless discovery via kink, swinging and cuckold involvement as enhancers of sexual experiences a couple can share and enjoy.

Cuckold Fluffer Guide
Cuckold Definitions, Examples and Origins

CUCKOLD –
a man whose wife has committed adultery A man whose spouse or romantic partner is unfaithful.

Noun
The definition of a cuckold is a man who has been cheated on by his wife or significant other.
A man whose wife has cheated on him is an example of a cuckold.

Verb
To cuckold is defined as to engage in an affair with someone’s wife, or to have an affair on your husband.
When you have a romantic affair that your husband does not know about, this is an example of a time when you cuckold your husband.
When you have a romantic affair with another man’s wife, this is an example of a time when you cuckold the man.

Origin of Cuckold

Middle English cokewold from Old French cucuault from cucu (see cuckoo): said to be in allusion to the female bird’s habit of changing mates

Middle English cokewald from Anglo-Norman cucuald from cucu the cuckoo from Vulgar Latin cuccūlus from Latin cucūlusWord History: The allusion to the cuckoo on which the word cuckold is based may not be appreciated by those unfamiliar with the nesting habits of certain varieties of this bird. The female of some cuckoos lays its eggs in the nests of other birds, leaving them to be cared for by the resident nesters. This parasitic tendency has given the female bird a figurative reputation for unfaithfulness as well. Hence in Old French we find the word cucuault, composed of cocu, “cuckoo, cuckold,” and the pejorative suffix -ald, used to designate a husband whose wife has wandered afield like the female cuckoo. An earlier assumed form of the Old French word was borrowed into Middle English by way of Anglo-Norman. Middle English cokewold, the ancestor of Modern English cuckold, is first recorded in a work written around 1250.

Cuckold Fluffer Guide
Cuckoldry as a Fetish

Unlike the traditional definition of the term, in fetish usage a cuckold or wife watching is complicit in their partner’s sexual “infidelity”; the wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is called a cuckoldress if the man is more submissive.

In my EXTENSIVE and PERSONAL experience with real life couples that are guided by me though the intricate, intense and delicious journey of this sexual interest, I find that the play spectrum is basically limitless and often evolving.

The main component in a Cuckold Lifestyle Play is this:

If a couple can keep the fantasy in the bedroom, or come to an agreement where being cuckolded in reality does not damage the relationship, they may try it out in reality. However, the primary proponent of the fantasy is almost always the one being humiliated, or the “cuckold”: the cuckold convinces his lover to participate in the fantasy for them, though other “cuckolds” may prefer their lover to initiate the situation instead. The fetish fantasy does not work at all if the cuckold is being humiliated against their will.

Having a Mistress like myself does help smooth out matters, when, for example, the Wife is out with her chosen stud, and the husband calls me for a session so it is, in fact all FOUR of us playing in real time.

Cuckold Fluffer Guide

Become a Cuckold Fluffer

TECHNIQUES ARE IMPORTANT

So here we are, after arriving to the actual application of becoming a cuckold fluffer. If you have always had bisexual fantasies, if you have always dreamt of sucking cock, and being submissive to an Alpha Male, this is your chance to do just that, and more.

As a Mistress, I will be instructing you exactly in the art of performing Fellatio, the right way, not only in the technical aspect but also as a submissive cuckold fluffer, and combining other important elements like feminization, humiliation and cross dressing.

When you add all of those to the mix, your experience and ability as a cuckold fluffer should be optimized to it’s full potential.

POSITIONS AND DISPLAY

Equally of importance are how you position yourself as a Cuckold Fluffer to show utmost submission and obedience to your Wife and her Stud, the glorious Alpha Male who will present his mega cannon cock to you.

On your knees is a good way to start, as you must show your humility and inferiority before the very cock that is about to penetrate your wife and give her True Conjugal pleasure you were NEVER able to give her.

FULL, SEMI OR NON PARTICIPATORY DURING HOT WIFE AND STUD COITOUS

After you, The Cuckold Fluffer, has performed your fluffing duties, there can be several paths you can take, depending on the situation and what has been decided by your Mistress, wife, or Dominant Alpha.

You may sit patiently, sometimes even locked up in a chastity cage, as you observe your wife being pleasured by this True Stud Alpha Cock, that you have fluffed for her just seconds ago.

You may be called on to fluff The Alpha Male again, in between their vigorous sex sessions, and be reminded, whilst doing so, about your place in the household, and the fact that it’s a great honor for you to be part of your wife’s pleasure sessions.

Cuckold Fluffer Guide
In Between Sessions

Your wife might have an improvement suggestion list.

And this is where a Mistress such as myself, steps in for some conditioning, training, and preparation, for you, The Cuckold Fluffer. Together, we will create a full conditioning plan that evolves with your changing needs within the cuckold lifestyle and beyond.

Our Journey together will include Custom Made Audios that you will be required to listen to as part of a deep conditioning almost trance-like quality, so that your cuckold ways are so very deeply embedded, they will become second nature, thus, making you a much better cuckold in the bedroom.

Ongoing Humiliation for away sex sessions.

I’ve been inter-phasing with wives and real life cuckold fluffers regarding away sex sessions with their Alpha, which simply means, at times, YOU the Cuckold, will NOT be part of the wife and her bulls sex sessions, or as I call them “Away Sessions”

In order to maintain balance and ongoing kink play, you will be calling me, Your Mistress, to discuss at length what is your wife and her bull are up to, whilst continuing in your humiliation and cuckold conditioning.

That way you will not feel as left out as you would if you did not have a Mistress as part of your cuckold lifestyle.
Engaging a Mistress in Real Time Away Sessions are the perfect way to focus on YOU and your part in this dynamics, and you won’t feel neglected or left out because the Away Session and Real Time Cuckold Conditioning is VITAL to all involved.

I’m excited to help you become the best Cuckold Fluffer you can be!

 

sources:

Merriam-Webster Dictionary

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