Humiliation Play – Is it for You?

Humiliation Play – Is it For You?

In this blog post let’s discuss the fascinating, multifaceted topic of  Humiliation Play – Is it For You?

I’ve been asked about often and do extensive sessions with this particular kink. Many of my clients who are new to this type of play, are sometimes  baffled  themselves, by their need to be humiliated, ridiculed, have their various shortcomings and flaws put in a harsh cruel spotlight.

And even more amazed that through this “abuse” they cum harder then ever before, especially when  under my skilled ways of using Level Malleable Humiliation tactics.

Have you ever considered this about yourself? Are you curious to try erotic humiliation? or even extreme? REMEMBER this is NOT TEASE AND DENIAL we are talking about here, this is HUMILIATION, and it’s a whole different kind of game.

So, Humiliation Play – Is it For You?

WHAT IS EROTIC HUMILIATION

Erotic humiliation is consensual psychological humiliation performed in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal. This can be for either the person(s) being humiliated and demeaned or the person(s) humiliating, or both. It is sometimes performed before spectators, including pornography and webcam viewers. It may be part of BDSM and other sexual roleplay, or accompanied by the sexual stimulation of the genitals (or other erotic region) of one or both parties in the activity.

Erotic humiliation can be done verbally, physically, or both, and can be either private or public. Some individuals assume an acting role and others prefer to be spoken to in a degrading way. A classic technique that can be used to put the submissive into a bottom mind space is to humiliate them while also providing them with sexual stimulation. Select individuals who desire this form of humiliation also use it to acquire emotional release.

Humiliation can become ritualized, and unlike some sexual variations, it can also be easily carried out over a long distance (such as online).

While fantasy and fascination with erotic humiliation is a prevalent part of BDSM and other sexual role play, relatively little has been written on it.[1] Humiliation play can, however, be taken to a point where it becomes emotionally or psychologically distressing to one or the other partner, especially if it is public humiliation. Erotic humiliation can become extreme enough to be considered a form of edge play, which some consider may best be approached with advance negotiation and use of a safe word.

 

LIKE IN MOST COMPLEX KINKS, IN HUMILIATION-PLAY,
ONE SIZE DOES NOT FIT ALL

In my Domination Practice and As both a lifestyle Mistress and Phone Mistress I have endless amount of clients that are frustrated since their fetish is only understood on a GENERAL LEVEL.

So many kinks have many common denominator, yes, 
But the Devil is quite literally in the Details. 
ONE WORD off or one shade wrong and the fantasy or role plays are RUINED. 

Hence my diligence and impeccable attention to establishing a ‘baseline’ of how to proceed with complex fetishes and role play. 
I enjoy this hyper focus precision, because it’s highly satisfying to me personally, as a Kink Connoisseur myself. 

Humiliation Play is level malleable and usually on some course of evolving and honing every aspect of this kink is CRUCIAL to it’s successful creation.   

Humiliation Play – Is it For You?
Sprinkled, Side-Dish or Soaked?

Words have a LOT of power over us. Certain words said in a specific tone of voice can have even MORE impact – They can Trigger us, they can Delight us, They Can Destroy us, and they can transport us into a realm totally of our choosing. 

In Humiliation play, words used in a specific manner and tone, can amplify a scenario a thousand fold – so when a client comes to me with that specific fetish I always asks about their parameters, boundaries and precise area and/or topics they would be interested in our humiliation play. Essentially it comes down to what type of level of humiliation they are interested in, So I divide my Humiliation Play to roughly these three categories:

“Sprinkled” Humiliation Play – 
VERY LIGHT and sparse in nature, more like teasing and taunting 
“Side Dish” Humiliation Play –
A bit more pronounced and present, certainly more obvious and with a greater emphasis, but not the main course of the role play
“Soaked” Humiliation Play – 
An armageddon of degradation, basically soaking you in heavy humiliation and wiping the floor with your tears, ripping you apart til there is nothing left of you but a twitching stain of pain at my feet.   

So rest assured that if you always wanted to try this kink, we can build a session that is highly level malleable and can meet and exceed all your humiliation play needs !

Looking forward to our collaborative play !

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