What is Femdom Queening
And why you MUST be Queened by a Queen!
By Mistress Alina Sky
There are very many erotic acts and kink play, which are synonymous with Femdom and all forms of female domination – foot worship, body worship, discipline whipping, orgasm denial and cock control, to name a few.
However, as far as direct sexual acts go, the most prevailing one is queening. Queening is the act of a woman sitting on a man’s face while he licks her cunt and orally pleasures her.
There is of course a non-sexual version of Queening, And I tend to use the term facesitting for that version.
But as a full spectrum Domination Mistress, I find that within the intricately nuanced world of BDSM, face sitting is usually done clothed. Plus it usually is pat and parcel of many fetishes, like body worship, ass worship and pantie worship; and of course be my throne and human furniture; or wrestling.
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What is Femdom Queening – A Short History
Queening: The empowering sex position for EVERY woman, not only a dominate one.
According to Urban Dictionary, the sex position was originally a way for upper class women, including Queens, to achieve sexual gratification without becoming pregnant.
The website describes queening as, “An ancient art in which a woman presses and rubs her genitalia and/or anus against the tongue, lips, and nose of her subordinate.”
The first images of queening were seen in ancient Egyptian drawings, but it is known to have been a historic part of ancient Japanese, Chinese, Indian, Medieval European, Victorian and other cultures.
While originally it was a job for the male slaves and servants to submit to their mistresses’ desire, in Japan, women paid men trained in queening for sexual pleasure.
Femdom Queening is a Sexual Act –
And a distinctive Femdom One as Well
Queening is sexual – it rivals, and in some cases may be considered as a superior substitute, to the full-sex act for a dominant woman.
Queening, especially in a Femdom context is in its essence a self serving act, which is concerned only with a woman aggressively taking her pleasure and satisfaction.
So even whilst doing so, her partner can be aroused and a man hard, his frustrated and unsatisfied state will add to the Dominant Woman control, superiority and enjoyment.
Which is why Queening presents as a uniquely femdom sex act as it does not work in reverse (man on top).
And, like strapon play, it is an inherently distinctive and powerful act. It reduces the man to being just a means to an end, an object for the Agressively superior and selfish Femdom sexual pleasure.
Any woman can of course lie back and have her genitals licked. However, queening demonstrates a woman superiority and in such a powerful and elegant way.
There she is, sitting up over a man (even caged and restrained man, if the Mistress so chooses to do), all enthroned while this man is kept subservient beneath her
It’s clear why this is where the act takes its name as the Femdom Queen majestically sits upon her ‘Pleasure Giving Human Throne’.
She is gloriously positioned above him, on him, smothering him, enveloping him, he only takes a breath when the Mistress generously allows it.
Furthermore, the submissive male cannot even see his Mistress face as the ecstacy consumes her, he is allowed NOTHING but to serve her when she takes her pleasure as she sees fit.
Femdom Queening is an Ultimate Act of Worship
by a Submissive for His Goddess
Queening is considered one of the most ultimate acts of worship by a submissive for his Femdom Goddess.
As it revolves around service that gives sexual pleasure to the Femdom Woman while the submissive male himself receives none.
Of course if you are a submissive that dreams of Queening and loves being it this position worshipping your Goddess this way, of course this is quite enjoyable for you as well.
After all you are in such an intimate and oh so desirable position and permitted to taste and smell and completely serve this Goddess that towers above you!
What a Femdom Queening Experience Feels Like
(Heaven. It Feels Like Heaven. And Hell. But Mostly Heaven. For ME at least Ha Ha)
To properly ‘Queen’ A Mistress doesn’t just plop and sit on a man’s face. Rather she rides it. With enthusiasm and intention and POWER.
As Aggressively or as slowly or in a multi level spectrum of slow to faster motions, the Femdom Mistress will pace her Queening at will.
The Submissive’s head should be tightly gripped between The Mistress thighs, or pinned beneath her buttocks.
Once in a Queening Position, A Mistress will direct the pace, rhythm, and movements with her hips, hovering over the submissive’s mouth.
A Mistress can use or avoid his nose, and can face in either direction , kneeling over his head or even squatting, whichever way a Mistress feels affords her the most control and pleasure.
In my experience, Queening is best performed on a comfortable and stable bed, since it provides the Mistress shins a padded surface, so the Queening session can go as long as I like it to.
Furthermore, on a bed, a Mistress has complete access to her male partner’s nipples and cock – so if she chooses she can tease or even use a crop to keep her submissive frustrated yet focused and motivated to do his best work!
Queening in Sessions with Fetish Equipment
There are no shortages of options for devices built especially for Queening Play. From Chairs to modified toilette seats, special benches and contraptions where the sub may even be blindfolded, restrained and thus sat upon for many hours of Queening fun.
No matter your Goddess prefered method and process for Queening, be most privileged to be chosen for such a task, show your devotion, train yourself to be exceptional in your use of your tongue and lips, so that you will be one of the lucky few chosen to serve a Mistress in such an intimate fashion.
So bring yourself forth and make sure your goddess knows that you are more than ready to serve all her Femdom Queening Needs.
Remember, HER pleasure CUMS first ! Now Serve Your Queen and Get to Queening !
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