The ignore fetish is one of the oldest humiliation fetishes in the world.

When the world was much younger, and civilization less connected worldwide, one of the ways a community would use to correct poor behavior was shunning. To be shunned was to become effectively invisible; no one would speak to you, or acknowledge your presence, shopkeepers would ignore you, and even family members would act like you weren’t there. The intense humiliation of being put on ignore in the real world was a powerful and effective way to ensure members of a community would all fall in line with regards to behavior. In modern times, we’ve taken the practice of shunning and applied it to an erotic humiliation scenario: imagine being at a party, and yet, no one will even so much as glance towards you!

Erotic humiliation takes the things that make you feel ashamed and turns them into hot buttons to make you feel aroused. Being ignored while you’re masturbating, trying to reach that edge of orgasm, can be humiliating and arousing at the same time. Put on a show for your Mistress, show her how hard you are, how aroused, how needy and desperate, and yet, she remains unimpressed; no matter how you beg or moan, nothing you can do will provoke a response from her.

Phone sex ignore calls are versatile, too.

If erotic humiliation isn’t your cup of tea, and you’d rather not be the center of passive mockery through being utterly ignored, try the gentle companionship of parallel play. Parallel play is a term that’s come up from the ADHD and neurodivergent community to describe the simple pleasure of spending time with someone, but not feeling the pressure to constantly interact. Persons with ADHD, anxiety, other mental health issues, or for those anywhere on or near the autistic spectrum can all find the peacefulness of simply spending time with another person with no expectations or required interaction very pleasant indeed. For phone sex ignore calls, we’re stating openly what’s been a private secret for so many for so long: you can jerk off and I won’t mind, reprimand you, or even overtly notice!

You can be ‘in the room’ with me, with your dick out, doing your own thing, and I’ll be doing my thing at the same time. Go ahead and watch porn over there, and wank. I don’t mind at all! Little breathy sounds and whimpers? That’s fine, I’m probably writing erotica over here, and using your noises as inspirational background noises. Want to just listen as I go through my day? Emails, blog posts, getting a drink of water, walking through the rooms, even talking with a friend about our plans for later! Eavesdrop with my blessing, spend time with me with no pressure at all, and just enjoy the experience of being a part of my life without needing to entertain me or perform.

Interested in trying a phone sex ignore fetish call?

We can set you up over phone, email, or skype; just drop a line and tell your Mistress that you’d like to try out the ignore fetish to see how it feels to you. Some people respond very positively, and some experience anxiety over being ignored; it’s entirely possible you won’t know which way you’ll respond until you’re in a session. If being ignored is too much for you, let your Mistress know, and we can transition you back to a regular phone sex session! But, if it turns out you love being ignored, and find that it gives you a relief from the pressure to perform or act a certain way, or the thrill of being overlooked and unseen, well then, you’ve learned something about yourself! Ignore fetish phone sex calls can be incredibly liberating.

Whore School recently covered the Ignore Fetish in an hour-long podcast. I’d suggest you give it a listen if you’re interested. And do please email your Mistress if you’re interested in trying this fascinating fetish out for yourself! We’d love to help you explore, or, if you’re already definitely a fan of the game, let us ignore you for a while!

Your Ignore Fetish Mistress, Harper

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